me and my mother  agree on things that my father does not? my mother and i agree that maybe my dad should do dishes and he argue's saying that he's a working man and shouldn't have to! my mohter being a wonderful woman does the dishes everyother night as i do...and my father sits in the chair and watches t.v. untill the dishes are done. we have disputes all together untill my dad does something that we have to tolerate and we do things he has to tolerate to live with us.